taylor

11th February 2012

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Things that need to be said.

And what makes you think that it’s okay for you to have conversations with past flings? I don’t care how “faithful” you think you are. You cannot, and I mean this passionately, have relationships with your past relationship. It just doesn’t make sense. And those of you who are sitting by your cell phone awaiting a text from your ex, while your present is sleeping beside you, are wrong. You are SO, SO wrong!

It just makes it okay for that ex, who screwed you over for months, to text you.

You remember him? The one that had the girlfriend who shortened every word to one syllable and had 142 “sisters” whom she got to hate you when you had absolutely no idea she even existed. That guy… the one who told you his girlfriend (who he wasn’t dating, NO WAY, cause she’s CRAZY) was blowing up his phone and wouldn’t leave him alone. That guy who probably said the same thing about you.

He liked the way you looked and thought he was a badass to say that he even had the slightest chance.

The guy who points to you in the club to all his friends, all giddy and cocky, then asks you to dance because he’s had too much to drink and thinks he’s automatically cute again.

Newsflash…. You’re trash.

If I opened my mouth about even half of the stuff that I have on different guys with “girlfriends” they wouldn’t have girlfriends anymore.

Or actually…girls are stupid so they probably wouldn’t be single.

Sigh…this generation.

Whatever…call me crazy. Someone once told me, “texting leads to talking and talking leads to sexing.” Well……..that’s true on some level.

Look at your relationship… truly, madly, deeply. If it’s not what you truly want, with all your heart, then why the HECK are you still with that person?

Move ON. Find someone that puts up with all of your drama yet still chooses to pick you over any one night stand with the new blonde girl from work.

He’s not worth it…no matter how hot he is. She’s not worth it… no matter how beautiful she is.

The most beautiful girls are the most faithful. Guys, it’s a proven fact. Just because she has a nice ass doesn’t mean that she’s going to be a nice mother to your children one day. Don’t think you’re crazy for thinking ahead because, well, stuff happens. Make sure she’s mama-worthy.

The most attractive guys are the ones who love their girlfriends/wives so much that they want to show her off to the world…not deny her. They want to take time out every day to remind that girl how much they mean to him, and ultimately deny any other girl who walks their way.  

If someone warns you about another someone, don’t automatically assume that the only reason why they’re saying it is because they, in fact, want the guy you’re seeing.

Please don’t be so vain to think that the guy/girl you’re seeing is whom everyone else wants. I can most of the time promise you that they don’t. Some people are actually decent.

HOWEVER…. If you’re that girl/guy who tries to get with other people’s boyfriends and then says, “He’s such a loser. He TOTALLY flirted with me, Cindy,” GO AWAY FOREVER. If you’re throwing yourself on someone who’s dating someone, and your halfway attractive, I highly doubt that they’re going to tell you to go screw yourself. Being polite and being flirty are two different things. Learn the difference before you make accusations.

And finalllllly, if you match any of these characteristics that I’m describing, please don’t think that I’m not going to laugh at you when you text me at one in the morning. Forget about it.